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PRETENDING ADULT Sorry, it has been a while. Today It's all about pretending adults, or rather an immature adult. We all know that a person above eighteen or slightly eighteen is regarded as a young adult, but once you attain twenty-one years of age. The person is now a full adult, who can sign a contract and can make all law binding decisions. Actually, they are people who are above the said age; twenty-one but are still very much a child or teenager. Their mental capacity is just like that, they think like a child. I call them Pretending Adults.  Adulthood is not about the age or number in the years that count. It is not about I am thirty or forty or whatever age people deem maturity as. It's about the experience, it is more about what you have faced, what you can point to as our achievement, more on what had happened and how you dealt with the occurrence. The rational decisions. The realness in reality – how you have decided to face reality. The problem s

SLAVERY Many thought they are free to do whatever they want, but actually, many are slaves to themselves. I know it's been a while I post something on this blog. I have been busy and all that. So sorry about that. Slavery  is any system in which principles of property law are applied to people, allowing individuals to own, buy and sell other individuals, as a de jure form of property. A slave is unable to withdraw unilaterally from such an arrangement and works without remuneration. According to wikipedia. Some are slaves to themselves. They have given themselves to others to control them, and has lost themselves in the wall built around them. Submitting themselves fully to the trust of others; who could mis-use the opportunity giving to them.  They try to control the individual, wanting he/ she to please them. Forgetting the need of others to make their own choice and decisions. It is more like selling yourself cheaply to others to do what they feel like with you. Not bein

LOVE AND OBSESSION I would like to say that not all that claim that they are in love are actually in love, some are in obsession. The phase if I can't have her, no one will, shows a great level of obsession. Truly, if you love the person just like you claim too. Why can't you let go when the person does not respond to the feeling. It is love when you respect the persons' feeling and let go. wishing that one person happiness wherever he or she wants  to be, or with who ever he or she wants. Obsession is seeing someone you claim to love being in pain in your presence, being in pain from being in the same environment as you are, yet you can't let go off that person. You want the person close to you all time regardless of the pain he or she felt. Holding someone  against their wish is obsession. Claiming someone is your possession, or claiming you own a person all shows obsession. Love is free and understanding. You are part of who you love, not the owne

BABY STEP: FIRST STEP TO SUCCESS BY ADESANYA YEWANDE There is a popular saying that; a journey of a thousand miles begins with a step. I say that not just any steps, but baby steps.  As a toddler, to begin walking you have to first crawl before standing to walk. It is not the day you begin to walk that you will begin to run. Whenever you trying to achieve success, you have to first crawl, fall, feel lots of pains, get hurt, cry. You will be left behind by those who had learn to walk. In business, you will lose money, you will get dupe, some ideas won't be reproductive, but if you give up, then you have failed in the first step to success. Success doesn't come in a day. It comes with perseverance and endurance.   After learning the baby step, then you can start walking gradually, then run, jump, and finally reach and touch the sky. You can even pluck out a star from the sky. If you don't learn the first step, the end result is easy meaning the sky wo

God times is the best by Ayandabo Bamidele    Sometimes it's takes 10 years for that 1 year that will transform your life. Why don't you cool your temper, for the said time to come to manifestation, have you forgotten the sayings that says there is time for everything, time to read, to sleep to work, to party, to merry with friends, to have money, time to worship and tine to die. Why don't you keep praying to God that ,by the time my set time will come it Should not meet you in grave. Because of  the fake life you living you tried to transform a life that has been destined to be president, because of your waywardness you transform a life that has been destined to be ministers of God. Have you also forgotten that there is no limitations to what you can achieve ,but the only limitations you have in your self is the fear. Like I would always says to my self no matter how am in need of money, I will never lay my hands on doing something that is not right that will susceptible

Man Recreates Wizkids outfit with polythene  bag... See funny Photos Funny Toheeb, a comic figure on social media appears obsessed with Nigerian singer, Ayodeji Wizkid Balogun as he has been recreating his photos in a hilarious fashion. Wizkid and Toheeb These are interesting photos of a Nigerian young man who has made an interesting career out of recreating the pictures of celebrities on social media. Toheeb is presently on Wizkid's case as he has recreated several pictures of the father of three to crack the ribs of his followers. From the look of things, he appears to be a big admirer of the superstar singer who has performed on international music stages. See more photos:

A change in Nigeria by Ayandabo Bamidele We keep saying we want a transformation in Nigeria. have we ever reason or come to our senses that what type of change do we want. Is it from bad to bad, or bad to good. At this level we are in Nigeria we don't want old parties to be voted for again we are tired of old faces, tired of old parties. Late tai solarin said may our be rough, ever since then, the citizens haven't enjoy any dividends of democracy, no good infrastructures, our power supply is erratic ,nevertheless we kept on voting, are we charmed or is it because of their 5000 stipends and their political gimmicks that makes us to sell the future of our children. Let us wake, enough of the sufferings, enough of the embezzlement of our funds, enough of amassing and wasting our mineral resources. We now turn Nigeria to polygamous family if my Dad rules a particular post in Nigeria my sons/jnr will take over. A lot graduate are out there, scrambling, struggling, doing a l

MASS FAILURE BY STUDENT: SOME OF THE REASONS STUDENT FAIL BY AYANDABO BAMIDELE.      Some student fails due to the lack of preparations for exam, preparing in the day of exam; by cramming putting pressure on them self. Late coming to school is also a factor we Should consider when listing the causes of mass failure, because the normal school hour is 7:30. A responsible student should be on the assembly ground by then preparing for morning devotions, and listening to all important informations that are needed to be passed for the day.      The moment a student comes late to class, he or she won't know what the teacher taught them on that day, while some of these student gang's up at the back of the school to discuss, disseminate, unworthy issues while some of their colleagues are in class.    I would also like to consider negligence on the teacher path, why because some teachers don't give scheme of work, while some are lazy,so

Nigeria: Russia 2018 Ahmed Musa was nominated among best scorer of the World Cup tournament. Do you think he deserves it? Share your view FIFA has nominated Ahmed Musa's second goal in Nigeria's match against Iceland as one of the 2018 World Cup Goals of the Tournament. The 25-year-old scored the two goals in the match. The second goal saw him combine pace, composure and brilliance to give Super Eagles three points in their second group stage game of the tournament. The goal was nominated with 17 others from Portugal's Cristiano Ronaldo and Ricardo Quaresma, Croatian captain and Golden Ball winner Luka Modric, Spain defender Nacho, Brazil's Philipe Coutinho, Russia attackers Denis Cheryshev [2] and Artem Dzyuba for the best goal in the global football showpiece. Nigeria was knocked out of the group stage after failing to claim an additional point against Argentina, who qualified with a 2 - 1 victory against the form er African champions.

SENATOR BEN MURRAY BRUCE RECOMMEND NEW METHOD OF VOTING TO END SEE AND BUY METHOD OF VOTING. Senator Ben Murray Bruce recommend new method of voting .  Benedict Murray-Bruce, MON is a Nigerian business magnate and politician. He is the founder of Silverbird Group, said in his twitter handle that "In 2015 we spent ₦108 billion on elections. This year we budgeted ₦242 billion for 2019 elections. Nigeria’s money can be better spent. We can be better served than to be paid ₦4,000 per vote. Electronic voting, backed with biographic details captured by NCC is a solution The Senator representing Bayelsa East in the Senate, Ben Murray-Bruce, has recommended a new pattern of voting ahead of the 2019 general elections The lawmaker wondered why Nigerians cannot vote by text since there are over 100 million phone lines in the country.Tweeting on Thursday afternoon, he suggested that to end vote buying as was widely reported in Ekiti state governorship election, voting via SMS

Music Download- Compose by Kongu Prince  An upcoming musician in the music industry named Kongu Prince  . Who had sang a lot of music like collect, Desire has released his latest song title "compose". A song that would make you move to the hit. Are you feeling lonely and need something to spice up your day. Download this song and have a lovely day. https://www.datafilehost.com/d/c8a1782d

THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN MARRIAGE AND WEDDING I must say, most ladies dreams is to be wed. To have an elaborate wedding, a ceremony that people will keep talking about for months. Well I say, there is a different between marriage and wedding. Instead of seeking wedding, why not dream to be married. Wedding is just for a short period of time. It is an occasion that might be plan for months but take place in a day. Marriage is the long life commitment between two partners. It is the pain shared, the memories felt, the dream and the unseen future. There a lot of big weddings that end up in a divorced marriage. It is just my though that it is not about the size of the wedding but the commitment each individual is ready to give to make the partnership work. The notion I want to be wed maybe wrong. Why not develop the notion that I want to be married. It's your choice to pick,  If you want to be 'wedded' or to be 'married'.

INVISIBLE: THE FORCES OF NATURE Not all what men believe they see is real, some are hidden truth more like a hidden agenda. There are some invisible factors one can’t really see. You believe in what you can see, but why don’t you think deep. They are invisible forces that have hidden the truth. Invisible forces that can hurt your love ones. Invisible forces that even if you are willing you won’t be able to say it. Invisible forces that can hurt the innocent. Seeing is believing, but not all that one see is true. People can make you see what they want just to cause trouble in one’s life. In life, before making decisions let us mind the invisible forces surrounding us.

I AM IN LOVE WITH MY EX C HAPTER 2 - ARE YOU A STALKER I was eating my lunch at the break. To be honest, the periods before the break was extremely long. Every now and then, I wish the class was over. If you were me, you would have wished the same. When a pest was sitting next to you, saying all sort of dirty languages he likes. Like I give a damn about him. I was still angry at Tina. Why did she leave her sit, making it feel like it was an empty seat? I was in no hurry to finish my meal, as I was picking my meal and thinking of the fastest plan to get rid of my newest sit partner. Soon, I heard footsteps approaching my table. I smiled inwardly, it has to be Tina. Maybe, she was sorry. Well, I don't also like fighting her. She is my BFF( best friend forever). I was wrong, turning left to see who sat beside me. It was Adrian with a smile on his face. This was great, just who I wanted to see... note the sarcasm. He smiled foolishly, I would say. "Hey babe, l

BLAME THE PERSON AND NOT THE GENDER Any error made by a person, always reflex on his gender. All ladies are said to like money maybe because one of them cares too much for money. Ladies are said to follow anything with money, but I say today that not all ladies are the same. We have ladies striving to be a useful person for themselves, we have ladies who are rich and doesn't depend on the opposite gender to survive. Truthfully, female are weak and depends on men. Yet, we have strong ladies who are willing to achieve things for themselves. The saying that they are some women who are strong as men would not be effective if all ladies depends on men to fed them. If all ladies follow money just like they say. Individually we all have our goals and opinion about life, because you have been a victim of a lady wicked attitude doesn't mean you have to judge the next lady you met with the same point of view. Likewise to men, ladies have to stop con

Friends: A life saver or a life breaker Before we can call anyone our friend, they are some things we must have notice about the person. Does this person has the same interest as I do? Will this fellow sacrifice some things for me? Am I willing to do anything for this person? Also, a place you met a friend can determine how strong your relationship will be. Is this friend your classmate, a neighbor e.t.c Those we call our friends can either be our life saver or life breaker. A saying goes thus:  Keep your friend close, but keep your enemies closer when will one know, if a particular friend had become an enemy. Is it when he or she is not pleased with your success or when  they starts going against you.  Some won't act that way but within them, they want no progress for someone they call there friend. Better to be one's best and closest friend. We don't know when a life saver or breaker gets to one. Trust is delicate to put in an individual.