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SLAVERY Many thought they are free to do whatever they want, but actually, many are slaves to themselves. I know it's been a while I post something on this blog. I have been busy and all that. So sorry about that. Slavery  is any system in which principles of property law are applied to people, allowing individuals to own, buy and sell other individuals, as a de jure form of property. A slave is unable to withdraw unilaterally from such an arrangement and works without remuneration. According to wikipedia. Some are slaves to themselves. They have given themselves to others to control them, and has lost themselves in the wall built around them. Submitting themselves fully to the trust of others; who could mis-use the opportunity giving to them.  They try to control the individual, wanting he/ she to please them. Forgetting the need of others to make their own choice and decisions. It is more like selling yourself cheaply to others to do what they feel like with you. Not bein

LOVE AND OBSESSION I would like to say that not all that claim that they are in love are actually in love, some are in obsession. The phase if I can't have her, no one will, shows a great level of obsession. Truly, if you love the person just like you claim too. Why can't you let go when the person does not respond to the feeling. It is love when you respect the persons' feeling and let go. wishing that one person happiness wherever he or she wants  to be, or with who ever he or she wants. Obsession is seeing someone you claim to love being in pain in your presence, being in pain from being in the same environment as you are, yet you can't let go off that person. You want the person close to you all time regardless of the pain he or she felt. Holding someone  against their wish is obsession. Claiming someone is your possession, or claiming you own a person all shows obsession. Love is free and understanding. You are part of who you love, not the owne

BABY STEP: FIRST STEP TO SUCCESS BY ADESANYA YEWANDE There is a popular saying that; a journey of a thousand miles begins with a step. I say that not just any steps, but baby steps.  As a toddler, to begin walking you have to first crawl before standing to walk. It is not the day you begin to walk that you will begin to run. Whenever you trying to achieve success, you have to first crawl, fall, feel lots of pains, get hurt, cry. You will be left behind by those who had learn to walk. In business, you will lose money, you will get dupe, some ideas won't be reproductive, but if you give up, then you have failed in the first step to success. Success doesn't come in a day. It comes with perseverance and endurance.   After learning the baby step, then you can start walking gradually, then run, jump, and finally reach and touch the sky. You can even pluck out a star from the sky. If you don't learn the first step, the end result is easy meaning the sky wo

A change in Nigeria by Ayandabo Bamidele We keep saying we want a transformation in Nigeria. have we ever reason or come to our senses that what type of change do we want. Is it from bad to bad, or bad to good. At this level we are in Nigeria we don't want old parties to be voted for again we are tired of old faces, tired of old parties. Late tai solarin said may our be rough, ever since then, the citizens haven't enjoy any dividends of democracy, no good infrastructures, our power supply is erratic ,nevertheless we kept on voting, are we charmed or is it because of their 5000 stipends and their political gimmicks that makes us to sell the future of our children. Let us wake, enough of the sufferings, enough of the embezzlement of our funds, enough of amassing and wasting our mineral resources. We now turn Nigeria to polygamous family if my Dad rules a particular post in Nigeria my sons/jnr will take over. A lot graduate are out there, scrambling, struggling, doing a l

MASS FAILURE BY STUDENT: SOME OF THE REASONS STUDENT FAIL BY AYANDABO BAMIDELE.      Some student fails due to the lack of preparations for exam, preparing in the day of exam; by cramming putting pressure on them self. Late coming to school is also a factor we Should consider when listing the causes of mass failure, because the normal school hour is 7:30. A responsible student should be on the assembly ground by then preparing for morning devotions, and listening to all important informations that are needed to be passed for the day.      The moment a student comes late to class, he or she won't know what the teacher taught them on that day, while some of these student gang's up at the back of the school to discuss, disseminate, unworthy issues while some of their colleagues are in class.    I would also like to consider negligence on the teacher path, why because some teachers don't give scheme of work, while some are lazy,so

SENATOR BEN MURRAY BRUCE RECOMMEND NEW METHOD OF VOTING TO END SEE AND BUY METHOD OF VOTING. Senator Ben Murray Bruce recommend new method of voting .  Benedict Murray-Bruce, MON is a Nigerian business magnate and politician. He is the founder of Silverbird Group, said in his twitter handle that "In 2015 we spent ₦108 billion on elections. This year we budgeted ₦242 billion for 2019 elections. Nigeria’s money can be better spent. We can be better served than to be paid ₦4,000 per vote. Electronic voting, backed with biographic details captured by NCC is a solution The Senator representing Bayelsa East in the Senate, Ben Murray-Bruce, has recommended a new pattern of voting ahead of the 2019 general elections The lawmaker wondered why Nigerians cannot vote by text since there are over 100 million phone lines in the country.Tweeting on Thursday afternoon, he suggested that to end vote buying as was widely reported in Ekiti state governorship election, voting via SMS

THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN MARRIAGE AND WEDDING I must say, most ladies dreams is to be wed. To have an elaborate wedding, a ceremony that people will keep talking about for months. Well I say, there is a different between marriage and wedding. Instead of seeking wedding, why not dream to be married. Wedding is just for a short period of time. It is an occasion that might be plan for months but take place in a day. Marriage is the long life commitment between two partners. It is the pain shared, the memories felt, the dream and the unseen future. There a lot of big weddings that end up in a divorced marriage. It is just my though that it is not about the size of the wedding but the commitment each individual is ready to give to make the partnership work. The notion I want to be wed maybe wrong. Why not develop the notion that I want to be married. It's your choice to pick,  If you want to be 'wedded' or to be 'married'.

INVISIBLE: THE FORCES OF NATURE Not all what men believe they see is real, some are hidden truth more like a hidden agenda. There are some invisible factors one can’t really see. You believe in what you can see, but why don’t you think deep. They are invisible forces that have hidden the truth. Invisible forces that can hurt your love ones. Invisible forces that even if you are willing you won’t be able to say it. Invisible forces that can hurt the innocent. Seeing is believing, but not all that one see is true. People can make you see what they want just to cause trouble in one’s life. In life, before making decisions let us mind the invisible forces surrounding us.

BLAME THE PERSON AND NOT THE GENDER Any error made by a person, always reflex on his gender. All ladies are said to like money maybe because one of them cares too much for money. Ladies are said to follow anything with money, but I say today that not all ladies are the same. We have ladies striving to be a useful person for themselves, we have ladies who are rich and doesn't depend on the opposite gender to survive. Truthfully, female are weak and depends on men. Yet, we have strong ladies who are willing to achieve things for themselves. The saying that they are some women who are strong as men would not be effective if all ladies depends on men to fed them. If all ladies follow money just like they say. Individually we all have our goals and opinion about life, because you have been a victim of a lady wicked attitude doesn't mean you have to judge the next lady you met with the same point of view. Likewise to men, ladies have to stop con